It's my opinion that if you are married, and she is too, then you stay married-- and faithful. If it hurts you that much to be in contact with her again, explain it to her, and cut off contact. Your decision was to marry someone else, not wait for her, and it's not fair to your wife if you are willing to drop her like a hot potato due to an old flame. Also remember that people change a lot in nearly a decade- I'm sure you have, and she has. How do you know you love her, and not the memory of her?
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There's a fine, fine line between a lover and a friend And there's a fine, fine line between reality and pretend ... I guess if someone doesn't love you back, it isn't such a crime, But there's a fine, fine line between love, and a waste of time. ... And I don't have the time to waste on you anymore. I don't think you even know what you're looking for For my own sanity, I've got to close the door, And walk away...
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